As we fix up our house to put on the market, our past several weeks have also been dedicated unto life-altering decisions such as “Do we put shutters on the new house?” I’ve had sleepless nights over such minute details. Only the strongest of marriages survive a renovation or a move. Fortunately, we’ve naturally gravitated to our areas of strength. Jamie has handled all the refinancing, loans and permit details while I’ve focused more on purging and cleaning our house. You know, the things that don’t require any brain power, that’s me!
The whole process has been seamless but we sometimes clash in our design decisions. I want a completely different look and feel from our Denver home. We currently have a lot of browns and reds, which was swell when we built 13 years ago but I want to brighten up our plot a lot more. To Jamie’s credit, he has acquiesced on much of it, thinking I will give him full reign over the basement and yard and for the most part, I will. Except for the location of his greenhouse. Out of all the places on our .5-acre-plot, he wants to build it smack dab in the middle of my view of Mount Timpanogos. HEAR ME ROAR!
We’ve finalized most of our decisions from the design center but we’re still pending on one minor detail: to shutter or not to shutter? Our design consultant a.k.a. Jamie’s Generous Sister Who is Trying Not to Kill us With our Indecision sent over a few photoshopped pictures of her neighbor’s home that is undergoing renovations. Obviously, our house will have a different design but the colors are similar and this gives us a general idea.
No shutters.
The home with photoshopped black and then white shutters.
Jamie and I sat down to discuss our options.
Jamie: “I like no shutters.”
Me: “I think the black shutters make the house look too dark. Let’s nix those.”
Jamie: “Agreed.”
Me: “I’m kind of leaning toward the white shutters. I like the clean lines”
Jamie: “Huh. I’ll tell you what. Let’s compromise and do no shutters.”
Amber: “How is that a compromise? That is the choice you originally wanted!”
Jamie: “Exactly.”
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